Occam's razor
Occam's razor is a mathematical theorem stating that the most direct and accurate route from point A to point B is the path with the least amount of assumptions.
LIVIN4d understands that friction between and among interpersonal relations emanates out of languages inundated with assumptions.
If we are truly careful to listen, in less than 5 sentenced these assumption undergarments of langjage can be heard. When the frivolity of fancy words is stripped away, the offensiveness and disrespect is "unbareable."
While at first listen these language assumptions may not be overt, with the peeling away of a few sentences and/or the connecting of a few dots in between sentences, these assumptions are evidently clear.
Assumptions have become the base framework of our language. No matter how fancy and frilly we adorn the clothing attire sentence structure and/or to use another analogy no matter how decorated the exteriors of buildings, the words we use are facades of heart truth.
Livin4d encourages you to pause and take a minute to really explore the undergarments of phrases you hear.
Furthermore the amount of circulated language is quite ridiculous. We use regurgitated expressions that aren't funny and don't even make sense or apply to what we are saying. Livin4d encourages you to truly examine how many repeat phrases you use within your daily language.
Many people are dietarily conscious gym goers and careful to watch and monitor what they put into their bodies. Many parents are careful to watch this for their children as well.
Yet from what I hear as I take a listen around, people are not that concerned about the auditory exposure of their children or their families. Lyrics exist such as shoving twinkies in mouths and vomiting. In public settings, warnings even come on TV announcements that this is not suitable for children yet as I look around there are children listening everywhere. Livin4d encourages you to take a minute and truly listen to what your children are being exposed to as it is building the structural foundation to their personalities and future interdynmic relationships with self and other.
Language is the food of our life force. We are born into this world as soma selves with energy circuits and currents of connect. If you take a minute to watch children you will see their pre-lingual soma movements. Notice their hand touching their throats. Notice when their hands raise to the air or when they stick out an index finger or pinky. Notice when it is the left or right hand. Pay attention to the toes and their movements.
Pay attention to what is transpiring in surrounding simultaneous environmental parameters as yur children make these somamovements. Notice what is going on within the surrounding environment when they cry out of the blue. Children under the age of 5 are the purest form of this soma energy that connects us all to an interspecies cellular matrix.
As we grow and attach language to our somaselves we drift away from this pure soma matrix connect. There is so much for us to learn and in order to do so we must break ourselves down to basically children in terms of language so we can begin an accurate reconstruction free of the erroneous angles our ancestors generations back built for us. This comment is by no means to blame. They built language as best as they could given the tools and knowledge they had at the time. Since the we have learned so much and we have learned so little. In any case the growth potential and connectivity are incredible if we are courageous enough to let go of almost everything we know.
When I was coming out on my week's journey across the United States to Toronto on a Greyhound bus, having shed my pre-existence, I was in a space of really being. I was able to observe life through a new lens. On some of these buses, there were young children. Not only did I notice the finger movements for the first time through this new lens but I also noticed the timing of their whales coincide with epithets and or surrounding adult language that could be deemed unfavorable.
Unfortunately, I was not aware of this dynamic relationship during the formative years in which I had the honor of raising an amazing girl. I believe I did the most amazing job possible as a mother given the tools I had at the time. This said, I also missed a lot. I am grateful that the child whom I raised was and perhaps still is as stubborn and tenacious as I was and am as I believe she (with a drop of help from me) was able to set herself free and see everything clear of these assumption based language words we use.
I am so lucky, she in turn began my foundational language breakdown in order to open my eyes and really see children and their environmental somatic responses the way I was able to start seeing them on my Greyhound over here. To play with words, as adults, we really grey'howl' so much out of our children both by the smoked screened language we use and the overpowering and directives of words, songs, movies and books we expose our children to.
Livin4d encourages everyone to really notice parallels between children's somatic responses and surrounding words, tones, levels, facial expressions, soma-emotions of adults whether overt or covert.
Like schools of fish who communicate through their lateral lines, birds who use magnetoreception and bugs who communicate with allomones, kiromones etc, we too have a somatic biological communication system that is so profound if we take the time to experience. To experience it, we must wash away much of our words and be willing to let go of much of what we've been taught and learned. This process of cleansing and molting was the hardest thing I ever did in my entire life. It is still hard as I have yet to truly find connection. I have been able to rejoin a species matrix, but I have yet to establish the word of connect... I guess which is why I have designated myself conveyor of livin4d. I want to reconnect. Livin4d is the eternal source that surrounds us through all dimensions of life and facets of time. Anyone and everyone has access to it. I am not anyone special who has any more or less than anyone else. At this point in time, in my world that I have been exposed to anyway, I am the only one who has the words to be able to share in order to deconstruct the words.
The last thing I will say about assumptions is that there is assumption based talk and filtered hearing. Assumption based talk I slightly addressed above. Filtered based hearing has to do with interpreting lingual words with a (+/-) spin. Words in and of themselves are all neutral. Let's take out epithets for sake of ease as they are often meant to be deliberately offensive.
All other words and how we hear them are filtered through our understandings and previous life experiences. This said, there are some words other than epithets that have a tendency to be associated with more plus or minus typical connotations. Overall speaking however, words are neutral. Our reactions, secondary inferences, interpretations and presentations are mostly based on plus or minus associations we attach these words. These associations are mostly due to the context in which we were taught the words and the associative contextual implications we have added on over the course of our lifetimes. Furthermore, combinations of words, similar text combinations of numbers and symbols strung along together in one sentence or one equation makes the possible interpretations much more complex. The chances of disconnect exponentially increase with the more combinations of words we use.
This is due to the fact that one word mixed with another word and another word does not just equal the sum of the words. As we mix and stir together spices in an aromatic soup, the blends and temperatures and surrounding vegetables in which we combine the ingredients take on whole new meanings.
To use livin4d terminology, a Provider might use a combination of words that is meant in one direction. Due to the sieve in which the Receiver hears these words, the ingredients that sift through to the bowl of the ear may sound and resonate very differently from how they were intended. If enough negative spins are interpreted by the receiver, friction or boiling point may begin. Before one knows it, Receiver response to Provider by throwing more "something on the fire" (I cannot remember but there is some regurgitated expression like this). Anyway, keep in mind as it is "food for thought."
Stir your soups with Occam's razor rather than the insame old ingredients. Furthermore, on a tangent, the more creative we are with our ingredient language surrounding our children children's milieu, the more it increases hippocampal and amygdala shape and associated neurotransmitter network routes to increase creativity and perspective angles which ultimately lead to expansion of the mind. The alternative is watching recirculation shows and news day after day, consequently joining the Bots on Wall-e. No offense to Pixar. They are painting the true reflection of humanity people. I love that show myself. The problem arises in that many viewers don't accurately reflect those bots as themselves.
One last thing, while in California I was at the house of a young child's with parents surround. The child said something and it became so clear how early the psychological conditioning or programming starts. I even asked the young child, "did you learn that from your mommy or your daddy?" It was quite sad. These were very very good parents in my opinion. Again, this is simply reflective of generational conditioning that has flown under the radar for too long.
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