17. Mirrored Form

Before I begin writing in further detail about livin4d's specific color coordinated GPTs (Blue, Green & Orange) and genetic intrinsic differences, I want to give a caveat that:

The beauty of life is that we are never truly "boxed in" to ANYTHING . . . whether it be personality type, age, gender or race or family. We all have attributes of our phenotypes (physical, mental, emotional, spiritual beings ), that transcend the above mentioned physical boxes.

We can ebb and flow into whatever box we choose to ebb and flow into. This concept of human permeability goes beyond our physical boxes of form and it goes beyond environmental milieu. What I mean by this idea is that we are truly such amazing creatures that if we want to train our bodies and minds to work in unison with the environment and other, we can take on and change our beings into any form  . . to any extent we wish to change our form. (If we confine ourselves to our sensory vision, we limit our ability to transform.  As entities we are so much more than what our eyes reveal).

So, just because you are one genetic "form" of personality type, always remember you are not confined to that form. Furthermore, no one form is better than another form. A gentle reminder to try not to compare self to other from better than-worse from scale.

Each colored GPT has amazing intrinsic values, energies and ways of thought and being in the world that the other 2 forms can benefit from at any given point in time. Each GPT has assets and components that could use help being carried . . .at times . . . by other. It is not anyone else's job to be responsible for us. That said, we can all use the guide of a wing through some currents.

ALL friction in relationships stems from our individual desires to "convert" 'other' to 'self' or a desire to feel "understood" by other. For some reason, our egos get attached to a mirror image of who we are as individuals and we think we need "other" to reflect containment of self.

Somehow we often fall into the view that if "other" thinks, and/or feels the world differently from "me"  it is a threat and dissemination to who "me" is in the world. If others don't mold into self, we argue or scold or withdraw or do something of the sort. Others do the same. This way of relating causes frictional demise.

We so tightly clench to our mirrored reflections of psyche, that we limit our individual and collective expansions. It is important to shatter this need for reflected view and construct livin4d.

Life simply doesn't have to be this form of closed packaging. Molding gets old and boring and ultimately we don't get to share with other . . .this beautiful life experience when we try and shove it into boxed forms.

Continual "molting," flowing and swaying in the breeze as livin4d guides us to do, contributes to love and connect rather than "molding," which causes relational Pompeii.

Livin4d molts current human views by breaking down the  structural walls filled with so much pre-existing judgments and knowings manifesting in current schisms of: personality types,  ages, genders or races and families giving us an opportunity to carve a new current of connect.

14. "[Humans'] 'New Clothes' ?" I Wonder? Can We Join in the Sewing?

In life, it has been my experience thus far that people love to pathologize and hierarchically  differentiate among groups as to which group is "better than" the other group.

And when people are not speaking to "the group" as a whole, they speak to subsidiary aspects of that group in reference to which part is better than another part. By default, it seems to be human nature to do this type of incessant comparison.

This comparison with built in scaled value seems to be a human for of self-preservation; as if we are all truly equal, there will be some loss of sense of self. It seems from my life experience, whether one is black, white, lesbian, straight, old, young, male, female, undoubtedly there are implicit rationalized judgments contributing to understanding of self to other.

These hierarchical energy "caste" systems keep the wheels of human friction turning resulting in a simultaneous right and left momentum and/or up/ and down momentum depending on the angle from which the motion is viewed.

Regardless of direction and content, the simultaneous opposite running flows contribute to human relational friction that occur within all social levels (organizational,  educational, social, family, couple).

As livin4d  has a new 3 way categorization system for humanity with (+/-) language overlay factor, it allows us humans to start over, tabula rasa (blank slate) with our was of relating to each other and understanding one another. Livin4d finally reveals to us a groundbreaking foundation to erect our psychological buildings of humanity without the "______"  referenced by all religions.

Livin4d is rooted in existing valid and reliable scientific data. It is the logical structure strong enough to embrace the creative.

Metaphorically speaking livin4d is like trees, not only in its root structure, but in that it can blow with the wind without snapping. While each tree is the same species of tree, each tree is a different width, height and distance from "other" such that each tree can blow with the wind without snapping and each tree can feel each other, perhaps sometimes with minor abrasions but never enough to create friction.

Unlike buildings which are either preserved or deconstructed in order to rebuild, livin4d innately has the tensile stength to adjust it's parameters for intrinsic changing of variables.

Livin4d is too vast a concept for anyone to take ownership of as it is a reflection with a twist of our humanity as a whole. We do not exist in isolation, nor does livin4d. Livin4d is too vast for any one person to build as it is a gift to our humanity from our humanity at another axis in time. While I would love more than anything for us humans to be able to integrate this gift of livin4d into the fibers of our lives' weave, it is up to us if we choose to sew this beautiful fabric of humanity.

I will continue to do my best to be the best reflection of "us" that I can be . . . in all facets of "us" :) in personal hope that we can all mend our psychological cloak. If we cannot, I understand this too as we can only do the best we can do at any given point in time. Afterall,  we are human and along with "us" comes many imperfections whether "silent," "shifted" or "overt."

12. Gender Roles Part 2: Livin4d Deconstructs Gender Role Fallacies

Gender Roles part 2

Just as Oxytocin levels are independent of gender, it can be speculated that Testosterone, Progesterone and Estrogen may also be independent of gender.

These 3 hormones may be directly associated with DNA and genes on allosomes or independent of the sex chromosomes making them independent of gender as well. This concept creates an interesting twist in that we typically attribute Testosterone levels to men and progesterone and estrogen levels to women.

It may be that Testosterone, estrogen and progesterone levels are directly associated with gender but further research needs to be conducted.

Livin4d poses the question, "Are these 3 hormones a direct association of gender or are they too, like Oxytocin a result of DNA not associated directly with gender?

It is suggested that further studies examine if portions of the 22 allosomes  (non sex chromosomes x,x; x,y) carry activated/expressed genes coding for Testosterone, Estrogen and/or Progesterone.

It is also suggested that further studies examine portions of the X chromosome which both "male" and "female" have in order to understand if the X chromosome performs Testosterone function.

Livin4d speculates that the majority of our "sex differences" determined by supposed XX and Xy gender genes are not at all due to these genes rather due to variations, activations, inactivations  and synergistic blends of activation on all our chromosomes.